We have all heard the expression, “never judge a book by its cover”. As human’s, once upon a time, long ago, it was likely a survival mechanism to quickly assess ‘friend’ or ‘foe’. Get it wrong, or being too slow at it, there was a real possibility it would cost you your life.
I don’t believe in today’s world such an immediate assessment is as dire as it once was. But do we still do it, and why? Sure, people are killed everyday at the hands of a stranger, and I would never advocate being naïve or unaware in your surroundings, but do you assess everyone in your day to day life with a strong first impression? Consider the following situations:
- The woman in public, dressed in a burka, walking with her husband?… Are we quick to assess judgement on how we perceive their relationship, her self-esteem, or maybe even the man’s views on women?
- The white guy with a shaved head who is covered with tattoos?…. Thug, ex-con, or white supremacist? With knowing little else, do we attempt to put him in box with a label?
Even in each of our own cultures, we have developed a spectrum of opinions where others fall somewhere along the line. I know that in the ‘brown skin’ cultures, some have the attitude that to be darker than your peers is less desirable than those with a lighter complexion.
When I was about eight years old, I remember learning that skin color mattered within the African American community where I lived. Within my own race I was often teased by other children because of my light skin and blond hair. They had many names for me that all had to do with the color of my skin. One of those nicknames was Cornbread. Laughing at me, they said the color of my skin was the same color as cornbread. Albino, High Yellow, and Half-Breed were other words used to humiliate me. Ridiculed for talking proper English, the African American kids accused me of trying to act ‘white’.
To judge a book by its cover is to form an opinion about someone or something based purely on what is seen on the surface. However, after taking a deeper look, the person or thing may be very different than what was originally presumed. As adults, what can be shocking is how quickly we are ready to make the determination of ‘friend’ or ‘foe’, even when it’s not a matter of life or death?
Speaking of judging a book by its cover, and on a lighter note, I bet some of you even do this when looking for a book to buy and read. The first thing that will probably grab your attention is the cover of the book. Based solely on the cover, you may decide whether a particular book is for you or not.
I was talking shop with a very well-known author several months ago and the topic of book covers came up. I noticed that in the twenty-five plus books she has written, that although every one of her covers were different, they all had two things in common. She made sure the position of the title of the book and the placement of her name were in their own designated spot on the cover. In addition, the font size and type were all matching on every cover. She found something that works for her and created her brand. Her books are easily identifiable just by the cover. You can tell a James Patterson or Nora Roberts book when you see it because of the consistent look of the cover.
Who knew? There’s a lot to learn in this industry. So, with that, I have redesigned the covers of my last two books to conform to the look of my first two books. Here they are. Let me know what you think.
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Love your post. It all ring so true.
Thank you
oxoxox
Bryan
Always enjoy reading your posts. So much truth in what you said this time around. Shame on me as a person if I do this and shame on us as a country for doing it so blatantly.
And what you said about book covers, is also very true. As a reader, I try very hard not do to look at the cover as the whole sum of the book. As a writer, I hope there’s more to my stories that attract readers than the cover.
Thank you for another wonderful post,
CJ
Hi CJ
Always glad to see a comment left from you. I am no better than anyone else. I too have to work on not judging too quickly. I think just having the conversation sometimes about something gets us thinking. Thinking is always good. Love You oxoxox
Subconsciously, I am guilty of “judging a book by it’s cover. Trying to be more self aware.Hopefully, the more I do the less I will have to do.
I think we all are, that’s why having the conversation is important 🙂
Don’t scare me like that!. I’m 3/4 finished with “Come To The Oaks.” I see the difference and I like the 2nd version better (for myself). Thanks for informational gem of consistency and placement.
LOl Perry, didn’t mean to scare you there. I too love the love cover! Always great to hear from you 🙂
I really enjoy your posts. Always a good reminder about having an internal awareness about judgement. Congratulations on the new covers.
Thank you Brian
Always nice to hear from you and thank you on the new covers 🙂
Judging a book by its cover comes natural to us in todays society. Unfortunately we’re all guilty of doing it. Doesn’t mean we can’t take notice and change our behavior once we notice we’re guilty.
Amen Sister! oxoxox